Our next appointment with the OB was pretty regular, no sono, just making sure all was well. I did have to see the perinatalogist, Dr. Thigpen, because of my age (apparently 37 is geriatric for baby making) so we set the appointment and went to talk. We saw the genetic counselor first, she had a run down of history because we'd seen them for our other 2 pregnancies, we knew the drill...yes, I'll do the blood screening....no, I'll pass on the amnio, thanks. Pretty short because we'd "been there, done that" before and as far as invasive screenings go, for us abortion isn't an option so whatever those would tell we'd know when the baby was born anyway so no reason to compromise the pregnancy. Here are photos from that visit and a video too....the "money" shot is at the very end!
13 week sono and belly pic
Now we think this baby is going to be a boy, but will get the official word from the doctor when I go back on June 1st!
So, YES this was unplanned...YES we do have a lot going on in our lives already...YES we do have our hands full with the 3 we have plus everything else...BUT we aren't totally freaked out because if this wasn't meant to happen then it wouldn't have, we weren't trying to help it along! I think we handle our family pretty well and one more won't make that much more work --- I hope! Brady and Angelina will be in kindergarten by the time this kid gets here, so that's a relief, plus Cirstyn will be in her pre-school two days per week. So there will be some saving graces already.
It's funny to me that we planned out so much of our lives before ever having kids, lived a lot and got to know each other frontwards and backwards, inside and out. Since having children it seems that no many things have been planned, or if they have then the plan didn't turn out quite like we wanted it to or thought it should. Even though we would not have "planned" for Angelina to have the medical issues she does, she has been such a blessing just the way she is teaching us patience and such a complete kind of love. She prepared us for what was coming with Brady and the ability to handle everything. If those situations haven't hampered our family bond, or for that matter the tornado that is Cirstyn, then I think the 4 of our kids growing up together are going to teach them so much about compassion and acceptance of others as well as things that Larry and I just might not be able to teach them!
Only time will tell......










